Carol Huang | English translate: Zizian Zhong
Because the Lord disciplines those he loves, and he punishes everyone he accepts as a son. —Hebrews 12 :6
No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but
painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and
peace for those who have been trained by it. —Hebrews 12 :11
Since I was little, I have been very aggressive. I have always
had a strong desire for success. When I was in high school, I joined
various musical groups, such as violin club, school choir, and piano
club. Meanwhile, I organized several events on campus. I also actively
involved in off campus activities. I would do whatever I was interested
in; No matter it was dancing, singing, painting or playing piano, I
always had a success. Because of all these achievements, I was getting
more and more prideful. And then, I was admitted by my dream University.
My life at the time made me firmly believing that I could plan my
future by relying on my own talents. However, God made me experiencing
his profound disciplines.
When I was a little girl, I have caught chronic?dermatitis. My
parents took to see various doctors, but none of them was able to heal
me. Some of the doctors comforted us that my illness would get better
naturally after I became a teenager. In desperate, my parents and I set
our hope on such comfort.
However, the reality was far apart from my hope. My healthy was
getting worse every day. Every time when my skin was itchy again, I used
a kind of steroid medicine to make myself feel better. Until about two
years ago, this medicine was very effective. However, when I was about
studying in my University, my body had managed to ignore the steroid
medicine totally. My illness had been out of control. There were
countless cuts and breakouts on my face. Some kind of liquid came out of
these wounds. Later, the wounds recovered a little bit, and then the
scars were broken again. There were lots of wounds on my neck, too. They
were so deep that I couldn ’ t turn my neck. There were wounds
everywhere, my face, hands, arms and legs. I was so sick that I could
no longer live a normal life. I couldn ’ t wash my hair by myself, so my
Mum had to wash it for me. For 5 months, I couldn ’ t take a bath
because there were too many cuts on my body. Because of all the wounds
and scars on my face, I couldn ’ t open my mouth to eat. I had to ask my
Mum to feed me bite by bite. I couldn ’ t brush my teeth because I
couldn ’ t put a tooth brush into my mouth. I couldn ’ t laugh. Neither
could I cry. The most painful moment was when I was sneezing. Whenever
that happened, I lost control of the muscles in my face; all my scars
were split at once. There was not even one night that I could sleep in
peace. I was continuously shaking, and my Mum could do nothing but hold
me tight. Sometimes, when my skin problem got worse, I was lying on the
ground and shaking. No one else could help me, so I slapped my face. I
tried to use pain to take away some itchiness. I knew I was torturing
myself. I knew it was not a long term solution, and it would make my
illness worse. However, that was the only thing that I could do at the
moment. Everything for me was very challenging. I had asked God
countless times for explanation. I didn ’ t think I deserved to be
treated like that. Why did he allow his beloved children to experience
such suffering? It was not until God took away everything that I was
proud of, I finally understood that God was disciplined me for my sinful
pride. I told God, I would give up everything in order to be healed by
him, even if it meant that I had to withdrawal from school.
In July, I read a Bible verse when I was doing my daily
devotional. I felt God was talking to me through a Bible verse, which
was Luke 1:24-25: “ After this his wife Elizabeth became pregnant and
for five months remained in seclusion. ‘ The Lord has done this for me, ’
she said. ‘ In these days he has shown his favor and taken away my
disgrace among the people. ’ ” . I told my mum that God would heal me in
5 months. To my surprise, she also had the same idea. During her
devotional time, she was reading the book of revelation, which was
talking about suffering for 5 months. God is faithful. In September, I
recovered so quickly that I was able to go school. From April to August,
it was exactly 5 months. Thanks the Lord, he does not lose his track.
His timing is always perfect.
God was continuously healing me, but the whole healing process
was not always smooth. Firstly, I changed several doctors. I believed
God would completely heal me in his time, but I was also secretly
wishing the doctor could help me. Every time when I had such idea, God
made me switch to a new doctor. In the end, I was desperate because of
the doctors ’ boasting. I had to focus on God and his almighty power for
healing.
Later, my Dad was diagnosed with leukemia. Once my Mum heard this
news, she left for Taiwan within 24 hours. When my parents were in
town, they drove me to school every day. Before I finished my classes,
they were ready to pick me up. Every week, they sent me to see a Chinese
doctor near PNE, and they also helped me to prepare Chinese medicine.
Whenever I didn ’ t feel well, they gave me massage and helped me to
take bath. They were also my tutors for my homework and my close
friends; they lifted me up when I was down. However, God took away all
of these roles in my life within a day. I had nothing to rely on
anymore. And then, I was scheduled for an eye surgery, which made me
feeling very empty. I was so insecure, and I couldn ’ t stop crying. A
counselor in church comforted me; many brothers and sisters encouraged
my siblings and me. However, when I was facing all these caring elders, I
couldn ’ t speak out the true concerns in my heart: I was not worrying
about my Dad ’ s health — I truly believed God was with him, and he
would be fine; I was worry because I was too weak to take care of
myself. I was ashamed because I was too childish to take care of myself.
However, the almighty God did not only care about my body, he
also took care of my heart. One day, I was subconsciously walking to
school cafeteria. I never liked the cafeteria in school because it was
too crowded for me. However, I felt comfortable to sit down in cafeteria
on that day. Right after that, I saw a Christian friend of mine was
near to me. I finally got courage to open my heart. I told her all my
helplessness and struggling. She encouraged me to believe God ’ s
sovereignty was over everything in my life. After talking to her, I felt
much peaceful in heart. God prepared right person at right timing for
me. Thanks the Lord.
Meanwhile, I had to take bus to my school or to Chinese medicine
clinic. It was pretty far for me to go these two places by busing.
However, God had a perfect plan ahead of time. The bus that I needed to
take had a stop right in front of my home. This particular bus could
also reach my school and the clinic. Can you imagine? God of the whole
universe and the lord of all, he prepared the location of my home, my
school, and the Chinese medicine clinic long time ago. He even planed
the particular bus for me, so that I could go school every day and go to
the Chinese medicine clinic after school. I could just take the same
bus go home after my treatment. All of these made me filled with God ’ s
grace and mercy. During that period, I was always staying very late.
Sometimes, I couldn ’ t sleep until I heard the singing of morning bird.
Every night, I slept about half an hour. I had classes at 8:30am, and I
waken up at 7am. I slowly prepared my Chinese medicine, taking the
medicine, and got ready to take care of myself when I didn ’ t feel
well. However, God helped me every day. When I was lacking of sleep, he
made me still go school energetically. When I was studying, God also
gave me many blessings. For example, I had a lot of group projects in
school. He prepared some very supportive group members for me. One of
them was my neighbor; she voluntarily drove me to school everyday.
Another of them told me that I didn ’ t need to worry about anything
related to cardboard, and none of my group members judged me by their
own standards. God was truly in control of everything. He had done so
much for me. If I am continuously talking about it, I would never finish
talking.
Later, the condition of my skin was very unstable. One day, it
got better; the day after, it got worse. However, I was courting on God.
By faith, I believed God would heal me. Because of such faith, there
was no fear in my heart. I was no longer struggling. I believed in God ’
s promises and his timing. Because of him, I was getting stronger in
front of my weakest issue. Sometimes, I heard my friend asking, “ When
God is pruning a branch, and the branch is hurting. Why God doesn’t
just make the branch blossom right away? ” In my heart, I knew that the
roots of the tree were growing deeper when God was pruning. In this way,
the tree would bear sweeter fruits in following years.
Whenever I am thinking about my spiritual journey during the past
2 years, I am always filled with tears. It was very difficult for me to
fight with my illness, and such difficulty made me feeling overwhelmed.
However, because of this painful illness, I was also blessed by godly
courage. In the two-year period, God took away my pride, and he
empowered me a heart with the fear of God. He teaches me with his word: “
I raised you up for this very purpose, that I might display my power in
you and that my name might be proclaimed in all the earth. ” ( Romans
9:17 ) Because of God ’ s wonderful plans and promises, I no longer take
this illness as a painful challenge. Instead, I think it is a blessing
for me. May the name of our God be glorified; he is worthy of all
praises.
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